hello everyone,

i have an issue that is a difficult one to really solve, a little background first. i am a 37-year-old male with Cerebral Palsy. i have had a rough life until i finally started working out quit smoking cigs and really got ahold of my issues. They're not all fixed but i am so much better than i was in my 20s.

here's the biggest issue. i very much feel sexually neglected in my life. i try to find people on tinder on Reddit here in bumble on every other sight's. i know its hard to get laid anyways but for people with disabilities, it is a rare occasion. At least for me. its soul-crushing i really need help i haven't worked so hard in my life not being able to lift 5 pounds to now being able to lift 50 pounds and being able to squat with my crutches. i just really feel very discouraged in my life because i don't get to very much get to experience safe nonabusvie sex. i just don't know what to do i don't have much money so that route is not available i just need real advice.