Im very bad with conflict. Ive been helping a friend get his license and been sitting with him. Yesterday someone else sat with him in my car and i got a call today to tell me while he was driving he decided to have some fun and nearly crashed my car after losing his ass end on the tight corner and dirt road.

He didnt listen to a word my friend said and he got terrified etc

Im not happy. To treat someone elses car like that is very disrespectful

My issue is, we have a car cruise with my car club tomorrow. Im be in one of my cars and we had plans for him to take me other car with my dad. Im 100% sure they will be doing shit in my car as my father encourages such behaviour and im reallt not ok with them using me car without me anymore after he disrespected it yesterday.

I think i want to say no to him joining us and keeping my car here at home. But its going to cause a lot of crap.

First will be that my friend dobbed him in to me for doing that in my car. And he will say im over reacting etc but apparently he took the sharp corner on durt road way to fast. He went sideways and 2 cars coming opposite way came around and was cm into clipping them. It's my car, i could over react and it doesnt matter. Its my car.