I wanted advice on the choices I’ve made. Specifically dealing with the decisions I make when giving/getting help.

My mentality is seen like this, in my perspective. I will be willing to offer help to other people whenever they need it. Usually whether it’s helping my pastor with technical stuff, friends & family, and even customers I provide to at work.

On the other spectrum, I will usually decline help from others. When people ask me if I need any help, I’ll pass it off and say I’ll be fine. At the end of the day though, am I really? At times, I’ve struggled with things in life & school, and it comes down to me regretting not taking the help.

I just need an explanation on why this is the case.