I (22F) have just started hooking up with a new guy (note: I know, not smart bc social distancing, but both of us are alone at our respective homes, except when we hang out). I previously have never been close to orgasming from penetration, and only have ever orgasmed both with a partner and alone via clitoral stimulation. However, every time I’ve had sex with this new guy something feels different and I have been extremely close to orgasming from penetration, but I end up feeling like I need to poop as well (???) so I get scared and ask him to stop because I don’t want to do that.

I have no clue why this is a thing, have never felt this before (with clitoral orgasms), and none of my friends were able to relate or help me out, so that’s why I turned to reddit. I almost positive I’d be able to orgasm if I just relaxed my body (?) but for some reason my body feels that if I relax, I’m going to poop. Literally any advice would be great right now because I want to give in so badly but I do NOT want to shit the bed. This has happened more than once.

tldr: I’ve never orgasmed from penetration before, but with a new sex partner I’m almost there, however I’m afraid I’m going to poop. What do I do?