I’ve never known my father, he left while my mother was pregnant with me. With the limited info I have about him I’ve tried to find him to no avail.

But a couple months ago I got into contact with my paternal half sister(who I also have never met, she didn’t even know I existed) through Facebook. We talked for a bit, I asked about my father and she asked me some questions trying to confirm I was talking about HER father. She said she needed a bit of time to process so I left her alone for awhile. Last week I messaged her a couple times, at first I just said hi then I asked for her help and sent a photo of my dad and mom but she still hasn’t responded.

She is the only person who can help me. I want to know him soooo bad. I hate my mother and all I’ve ever wanted was an actually good parent. I’m afraid that they think I only want money but I don’t at all and I’m afraid that bringing that up will only confirm that in their minds.please give me advice