I have a FWB and things were great before. He had to leave the country for a family issue and life moved as usual. We met on Whisper app and was pretty much hanging out or having sex for around 2 years. It was clear we weren't in a relationship nor do we have feelings for each other as he said (in his words) "Dont be like me it's been 3 years and I'm still hung up with my ex" and I agreed cause I didnt really have much to say.

He was 9 years older than me, and we met when I was 20. He was of a different nationality and english isnt his first language. So everything was great up until he left. In the two years that we were friends, we never really fought about anything.

We both dont chat with each other unless it's about direction on when we will meet and we did try to chat after he left the country but I got so busy I dont really want to chat about anything. He is on a different field of work and I currently have 3 jobs (Im a busybody, I like money) and when he asked for favors to do in my country (paperwork etc) I try to offer a hand but eventually his favor fell through.

The one time that we did fight was when I was talking to him about my depression and talking to a therapist, and he said that I was being ungrateful and unappreciative of what I have and many more other people have less things than I do so what do I have to be sad about. That's when I realized we have absolutely nothing in common besides sexual fetishes and by this time I havent had sex for a year now since he left and that's cause I wasn't and still am not interested in sex.

He messaged me yesterday about how Im going to block him now and that I only talk to him when he is in my country. Which I then replied that I am busy and that we dont have much in common to talk about. I said that Im only being honest as I've always been and he said no, someone must be courting you. No one is and it just annoyed the crap out of me.

So the question is do I block him or just ignore his messages? I'm really annoyed and frankly it made me like him less as a person.

TL;DR: Ex-FWB left the country, got mad that I dont chat back when he chats me up. Pissed off at me and tells me Im only talking to him when he's in my country.