Say you’ve been this way all your life and you have X personality trait and you can’t find a middle ground . I’m twenty and I realized I am easily angered and a dash of self centered it has lead me to put some people into a lot of crap. Nothing too toxic or anything that has lead to mental and or physical abuse. I always look back after an incident and realize that could have been avoided or the way I acted was unnecessary.

I don’t know if I am being self centered or I just don’t care about others-sometimes. I am nice and really friendly probably out of 80 employees at my job I don’t talk to maybe 10 of them. I share most of the tips I get with the older people at work. (Not trying to prove I’m a good person, I just want to give you more information out my personality) I can see the times when I’m being self centered and I point it out and think wait....i have the right to put myself first but then again I feel like a ass when I do. I may be trying to hard to please others too which is causing confusion.

To elaborate on easily angered I don’t blow up and throw temper tantrums but I do give a lot of attitude and silent treatment. I mainly give the silent treatment to cool off but it’s part coping method and spiteful ness.

I want to get better but I feel like this is just the way I am