TL;DR - Went on a date, she didn’t hang out with me the entire night. Even though I drove us to the concert, I left the downtown scene alone. Now, she’s mad. What’s next?

I’ve been casually dating this girl since Christmas. We never officially called each other any form of significant other; but we sleep together a lot and act like a couple. I’m a huge music fan and I took her to see a special concert. We didn’t spend a minute of time the entire night. We show up to the venue. The music is already playing. I walk to the front of the stage and enjoy myself. She drifts to the back and is on her phone. Break between bands My roommate, myself, and her are all drinking beers on the patio. She notices a lady alone, so she decides to say hello. I hear the music start up, so I walk in the other direction. Fast forward to the night ending. I am sitting at the bar alone drinking a beer. She comes up to me with her group of 5 friendly strangers. They want to get tacos, I deny the offer, due to my freshly topped off beer and my huge social anxiety. I prefer one on one hang outs and not groups, so naturally I just hang back like always. I finish my beer and she is no where in sight. The bar is closing and it’s cold outside. I go to my car to grab my jacket I see her on the way to the parking lot. She screams at me from across the way. “Are you okay!?” My social anxiety and general dislike for being the center of attention answered swiftly and quickly. I am generally a pretty honest person. I told her I was okay and continued to walk to my car. Once warm with my heater on and jacket. I pull out my phone to tell her I’m leaving that I’ll call her an uber when she is ready. Then I drive off to my apartment.

45 minutes later I hear an angry knock on my door and she is pissed at me for leaving her downtown; even though, we came together. I feel like I damaged our relationship by leaving her downtown. I feel I didn’t do anything wrong. I was basically hanging out alone all night and wasn’t about to wait in the cold for her to be down ditching me with her stranger friends.

I feel I just need to rant more than anything; but I don’t really know what to do from here on out. Do I text her tomorrow in the morning? Do I let her text me? We both seem generally displeased with the other. I don’t know what to expect next.