I have 2 best friends and I’ll give them false names for the sake of not making this situation worse. Amanda and Julia.

Amanda has been acting funny and distant the last few weeks. We haven’t been as close or talking often. I figured it’s because she just passed her police exam and is stressed with the upcoming changes in her life. I would offer support and get a cold shoulder so I’ve just been giving her space. I notice Amanda and Julia are hanging out and talking together without inviting me. This is unusual. I see the photos on social media.

I’m scrolling yesterday and notice Julia has blocked me on everything. All of our past interactions have been normal and I can’t think of anything wrong I could’ve done to prompt her to do this.

I’m sitting here heart broken and betrayed. I can’t stop crying. I truly believe Amanda has been fabricating stories about me and getting Julia to turn on me. I don’t know what I did.

I reached out to Amanda and apologized if I did something wrong and told her it was never my intention to be a poor friend and that if I did something wrong I want to take accountability for it. I told her how hurt I was by Julia blocking me and I just want to gain some understanding as to why it’s happened. She hasn’t responded to me.

Any advice would be helpful because this has been devastating for me.