been dealing with this thought for a while now

went to see my mom on my birthday, she went into a olng spiel about how my dads been holding me back from doing something (watching the kids mainly) am 22, no degree, and working at a pizza place atm.

i like my job, and theres actual room for me to advance up the ladder. my work ethic is good, i love what i do, and my skill is damn near perfect, just needing consistency, computer training, and good habits. the salary for gm is 3600 a month, and some apartments are around 900 a month.

dad wants me to live life and be a man, but when he heard about this idea he halfway dismissed it and said to just stay home and save my cash. that was the plan already, wasnt going for the apartment until i had the gm position

it just feels weird is all. like maybe theres some merit to what mom was saying but at the same time saving money would be best, just dont know if he meant now or when i get the position.

am i just overthinking this?