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Hello I need advice on how to move on with this girl I met her at the place I work at it was typically just casual talking which leads to us having similar interests and such I eventually ended having feelings for her to which she admitted she felt the same.We ended up dating after 2 dates I really enjoy being with this person but what bothers me is her age a lot of my coworkers have told me that they are happy that we started dating and hope it works out well. I know the age gap is 5 years apart but I have never dated anyone other than when I was in middle school after that I was secluded in my home throughout highschool until I got a job so all I ever did was work and be in my own world I never talked with people around my age during my highschool years Until I started working and even then is just work related topics until I met her I was always to myself but she ended up getting to know me I really enjoy being with her because she's caring,funny,and how bright she is but I also don't want to negatively influence her in any way.. she's is still in school which also bothers me.
Should I keep going with this relationship even with all these "risk"?
Or Should I have a talk with her about this situation? I did brought it up to her because it is a very big and heavy discussion to have with her she agreed as well she feels is something that's also been on her mind I haven't fully talked about it when I mentioned it just kinda brought it up to her attention atm but I couldn't find the words so we decided to give us some times to think about it and choose a safe place to discuss in case we end up getting emotional.
Or should I just swallow the pain and sever the relationship with her entirely and keep it private?
I really don't know what to do I like her but these cons make me feel that Is not possible..but at the same time my other half wants to defy all odds I want to work it out but I'm not sure is it really something we both are willing to work through and fight against if that's the way to put it.
End it
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