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My boyfriend just came out to me as gay
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I’ve been with my boyfriend for two years and we’ve had what I thought was a pretty happy relationship. But yesterday, he sat me down and told me he’s gay. He explained that he’s been struggling with his identity for a while and didn’t mean to hurt me but felt it was time to be honest with himself and me.

I’m proud of him for coming out and being honest, but I’m also really hurt and confused. I feel like my world has been flipped upside down, and I don’t know what to do from here. I still care about him deeply, but I can’t help but feel betrayed, even though I know this isn’t about me.

Has anyone been through something similar? How do I process this? Should we try to stay friends, or would that make things harder for both of us?

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Thank you this gave me alot of closure

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