I recently moved a few states away from home and I met this guy I’ll call him Dan. Me and Dan met on Wizz (ifykyk) and we ended swapping numbers and talking for a month. We later went on a date and everything was going great! He mentioned he had a kid which wasn’t a deal breaker for me I love kids but what got me was he said that he still lived with his baby momma. Okay again no biggie after a while we went on a few more dates and then out of no where it all went downhill his baby momma reached out and basically said they were together together and I asked him about it and he confirmed it. not only were they together they were married. So me being me I cut ties but he still tries to talk to me after I told him I didn’t want anything to do with him. And that hurt me a lot if anyone has ever seen the episode of helluva boss when virosika has the we hate blitzo party I was blitzo I was just sulking around crying eating my feelings I was a mess. Fast forward to now and I met a guy very nice very sweet he also has a kid but the kicker is HE’S IN THE SAME SITUATION he lives with his baby momma and she doesn’t know he’s on these apps except Dan was just bored and this one he says that he genuinely doesn’t want to be with her and he wants to leave. I’m having doubts and he said I could leave if I wanted but… part of me wants to stay and just push through it but another part of me thinks history is going to repeat itself… what should I do?