Looking for some advice or opinions on this situation Me 40M her 33F split in july from a 8 yr relationship. We decided to stay in touch talking entertaining getting back together with her moving an hour away and me ageeing in a few months id move to be with her. Now a over the next few months things started getting shady and her snd her friend started acting out on me but yet she still kept me close enough. We totally ended it nov 4 because i found out some things that i didnt agree with and she would not stop them for me. Now a few days ago i got to hangout with this friend and i what i found out absolutely was disgusting and i was completely played and made believe something that wasnt true. She had a secert life and made this friend hate me for no reason over lies. So this friend seen i was nothing ljke she asked and i was a good guy. Well me and her really clicked and hit it off and ended up sleeping together (mind you 2 yrs prior my ex cheated on me with my friend). Now my ex knows now we didn't keep it a secert and shes also in a rebound relationship already and the friendship is over. But why does she care so much about this if she doesnt give a shit about me at all and already in a new relationship days after we ended it and her friend called her out for all the lies? She met this guy through this friend shes in this rebound with as well. But her friend was under the impression i was a monster and did all these bad things. And now my ex is upset all her lies are out and what we did and now trys to tell her she can have me and but dont think i care about her im only using her blah blah. So if she thought so low or me to do the things she did to me and make up lies why care about this?