I (male) Recently connected with someone (female) We have never crossed paths, have no mutual connections, and would have never met unless it was for the internet.

We connected over a Reddit post of all things, and to my surprise it was actually her who reached out to me. As we started a conversation it quickly became apparent that we were both looking for an escape from our realities.

Soon after talking for a short period things began to change and evolve, and now it’s obvious we both have incredible deep feelings for each other.

We are both Married, one of us has a child/children. Our lives are completely separate and deeply woven with the other person we have been with for several years.

Knowing we both feel so deeply for each-other, but have completely autonomous lives we don’t wish to explode Do we just call it quits? Do we explore a secret relationship?