I'll keep this short.

My buddy and I have been friends for over 20 years. He married his wife young and started a family ect ect. He told me he wanted to do a MMF threesome. Him, his wife, and me. I'm a single dude and was ok with the idea as long as we set ground rules.he said he would call and tell me when a good day would be. The next day, he tells me that I can just bang his wife whenever I want. I have his permission. I asked him if everything was OK, if this was a test , or whatever. He said no, that him and his wife are exploring thier desires and all that. I call her to talk about it, and she is basically mortified. She had no idea what I'm talking about. She isTotally not on board and not interested... she wasn't even asked. My friend has basically made everything so awkward. I moved across state to be close to my friend so if I had kids they could grow up together with his kids, but now everything is so awkward. What should I do.