My wife’s brother which I love dearly, got married a year ago very unexpectedly considering how close we all are. She has many health issues like 35 different medications and is an extreme hypochondriac. She is very antisocial seems by choice with his side of the family. Everyone has made an effort she just sits in different rooms scrolling tik tok or YouTube showing no signs of interest in us, that is unless her moms around then she’s a social butterfly. We all just took a trip to fortworth my wife and myself, her brother and said “wife.” We changed plans went to a last minute mediterranean food place. Oh my God, the food was amazing. Forgot to mention my other brother in law was there with his girl so it was a party of 6. Minimum plate was like 25 dollars and food was amazing. Long story short she ordered French fries and sat on her phone AT THE TABLE with a disgusting look on her face irritating all of us… absolutely rude to do. Didn’t engage in any conversation the whole night. Only talking to him. So really having no other option but to have to put up with her how should I handle other affairs… should we keep trying to include her or should we stop inviting them or maybe there’s something we can do. She’s not a cunt, or an evil person, just don’t think she cares enough to want to be around.