I have been with this woman for going onto 4 years and we have a almost 3 yr old son. We’ve been on and off almost every few months, very toxic. What leads us back together is having a baby. I decided to go thru her phone the last time we got back together just because an instinct told me to look for closure to leave. I go on and find that she’s hooking up with her ex, hooked up with a friend I dropped due to being a loser and abusive to his mother and girlfriend, and hooked up with some other guy. My whole thing here is those 3 people know me , they’re into the hood life , which I don’t want around my son and those 3 don’t like me from back when I was in high school so I see it as they’re doing it to get back at me. I am the first white guy my baby mother has ever been with and all her hook ups were black as well. Now when I asked her about it all she swore she just hung out and the most made out. I just can’t believe that at all. I wanna also make clear I’m not mad about the hooking up as one, we weren’t together and two, I did the same but I did it with random women who don’t know my baby mom and my child. The advice I’m looking for here is, I’ve been with this girl and trusted her for a very long time and I have no proof other than text with her best friend about these events but she still tells me no sex happened, what do you guys/gals think? And should I just leave her in the rear view and keep pushing along in my own life?