I used to be really into going to the gym and had a decent amount of muscle, but ever since I got a new job, I haven’t been going to the gym as much. While I do eat healthy, I have noticed some weight gain. One part of me really likes it as it makes me feel more feminine. I’ve never had breasts this large and my bum is big, too, but along with those things my thighs have also gotten quite big. I grew up in a super fatphobic household and, while I love my new curves, a voice at the back of my head is telling me no one will find my jiggly thighs pretty and I look disgusting because of the weight I’ve gained. It’s a constant back and forth in my head. What do you suggest to do to relieve this sort of self criticism? I appreciate any feedback as I’ll think I look good one moment then feel gross and my self esteem is really taking a hit.