Hi all

I have been living in this situation for several months now and I don’t know how or what to do. The situation is as follows: I have a small group of friends at work with whom we are very good friends. But 2-3 months ago it began to seem to me that I was superfluous in that company. This may be important, but I'm the very last one to join this company.

How did this start to seem to me:

1. When we all go to lunch, I always go separately, whether I want to or not.

2. Almost always the entire dialogue passes me by, and when I want to know something, they almost always tell me “forget it”

3. When someone wants to show something (a joke or something like that) or tell a funny situation, they basically call everyone except me.

And there really are many such examples, this is just what came to mind first.

Although there is another side. If I were the odd one out, then perhaps I wouldn’t be invited to dinners. When I was a little sick, they asked me about my health. Once I was alone with one of this group of friends, and asked him if I was really a friend to them, to which I received the answer “don’t talk nonsense, we are friends, and we love you for who you are.”

That’s why I had a question: what and how should I do?

Maybe I'm just getting ADD and I just need to stop thinking about it?