21 M Uk here, if that matters.

So far I've tried cafes, libraries, parks, bars, clubs, comic shops, vintage clothes stores, museums, art galleries, book stores, game stores, music stores, Uni campus, student guild, just out n about, in a few different cities, over the course of a few years.

Tried sitting n doing my thing no phone out, actively chatting, approaching (which is hard) but still I try.

I don't like going out hoping to meet ppl/turning it into a job cuz I think that leads to disappointment n bitterness. So I try to actually just enjoy whatever the place/activity is.

So I'm not sure if I'm doin something wrong, or if there's better places to try, or times?

Advice n not just hate would be cool. Thnx.

Have a nice day.