So, my mom (she’s my grandma really since she raised me as a baby), has been going through a lot of health issues. She’s been worse now and they told me last week her heart was at 45% capacity. Her heart could stop any day.

Well, it’s happened about 2 hours ago give or take. I got the call that her nurse had taken her to the grocery store to get food. And she passed out. They did CPR and couldn’t get a pulse. That’s the extent of what I know. I’m going to head to the ER shortly once my bestie picks me up.

At this rate, idk what to do for preparations. I was going to get started this week too and this happened so much sooner.

She said she wanted cremation. I don’t. But idk what to do. No one has ever taught me anything of this or how to start a process of final arrangements etc. I need advice and some direction as I am quite distraught.