Long story short, I (m19) have been with my gf (f19) for a year and a half and last semester she moved away to another city for college and until a week ago I discovered that she was messaging other dudes and like texting them in a bit very cool way since she’s been at college. In some she would say she misses them and in another one she told this guy that I didn’t exist and that he was her bf and that she was all bout him. When I saw this I felt hurt and disappointed cause I would never imagine her doing that to me. And honestly I’ve been a pretty good bf too I never cheated and I was always there for her and I’m hurt rn.

I confronted her abt it and I told her it was better if we were over and then she started crying and telling me to give her a chance and that she will change. I decided to try again and so here I am laying in my bed trying so hard to forgive her but idk how to deal with the pain. Also I do want to forgive her cause I love her but I can’t stop thinking about what she did. Do you think people can really change if a second chance is offered? Idk what to do