Hi,

As stated above, there is a lot of confusion going around what my co-worker wants from me. She started here a couple of months ago, and I introduced myself to her right about when she started. After that, we haven’t really communicated much till recently.

Recently, about a week and a half ago she has started acting extremely weird, firstly by asking me to have 1 on 1 work breaks with her in my car. She then started calling herself my ‘passenger princess’, then next day she wanted me to go shopping with her for sexy lingerie/underwear where she specifically made me pick one where I offered to pay half for.

The next day she had asked me for my social media, where on the exact day we would text extremely frequently and the replies were extremely fast, like the second I would send a text and then came the extremely sexual jokes, and sexual details about her sex life such as whether she likes to have sex without condoms or not, and told me not to worry cause she only had a body count of 3.

Seeing, as slow as I am that her interest in me started growing, so did mine and that is when I invited her to grab some food with a few of the other co-workers where I dropped her off at her house after.

On the same day, she absolutely stopped replying to any of my messages leaving me on delivered for days at a time.

Why show interest in me? Why go to such lengths to just mess me about? Why throw me away when I show an interest back?

When I am next in to work, should I treat her as nicely as I used to or should I completely cut it off or keep it civil with her?