This whole thing is super embarrassing. So for context I think I'm bisexual and I recently decided to start exploring, so I lost my virginity to a guy about 2 weeks ago. I was on top if that's relevant. We've met twice so far, but both times it took me between 35-50 minutes to cum and I don't understand why. I mean, when I masturbate I can usually get it done within 20 minutes. We tried several different positions, oral, handjobs, and he even rimmed me- which all felt great, but didn't make me cum any faster. Is it normal to take so long, or am I doing something wrong?

Oh and I did feel pretty nervous the first time, but only slightly so the second time