i have been in the same relationship for almost three years now and its gotten steadily worse and i know its her fault. I'm looking to break up with her soon but am afraid because i see what its like for a man to date in 2023 and it makes me scared that women want a guy who makes this much money or he has to be at least this tall he can't control me by telling me that i can't go out to clubs and parties. Now to be clear i don't have any issues with women to have these standards but i'm more afraid of if i get into a new relationship how is she gonna treat me is she gonna try and control and manipulate me will she try to gaslight me and play the victim these are all legitimate fears i have when i think about dating someone new do i have something to worry about or am i just overthinking it