So me(38F) has been seeing this woman (26f) as sort of romantically. It’s complicated to explain. We are both extremely attracted to each other. But haven’t taken it anywhere. She hugs me and kisses my neck, touches my body gently yet suductively, but pulls away quickly and doesn’t stay close. So many times it would have been the perfect time to kiss but she pulls away just before it reaches that point. I can’t help the way I feel. One night she got wasted, and was feeling me up pretty good but we were with our friends and our s/o’s at the time mine didn’t know I was bi (i told him he said he figured I was bit was waiting for me) and her’s knows. But it was still an inappropriate showing because they were there and it was disrespectful to them. I didn’t let her do anything she would regret based on what she does sober. I ask before I hold her hand, or hug her. The issue is what came after the drunk night. Something happened. She cut off communication claiming her social battery was low. Also making me feel like I did something wrong. Once she started talking again she made up excuses. Our last exchange she claimed that when we talk about something that makes her uncomfortable she changes the subject quickly, (I’ve noticed) and most of the things in my life bore her and she doesn’t like to listen to me talk about them, yet she wants me to talk more… I like her but I feel like she needs therapy. I know her childhood was bad, and I think she repressed her feelings, and anytime she might start feeling big emotions she pulls back like she is scared to feel. I don’t want to drop her, but I feel like I may resent keeping her even as just a friend. Has anyone dealt with a situation like this? It feels unnatural. I’m worried about her mental health.