I broke up with my ex girlfriend nearly a month ago, after 3 weeks of moving into to our newly leased rental home. I broke up with her because of constant fighting, and not feeling secure with her at the given moment, and it just felt like it couldn’t work out. After 5 days later I decided I didn’t want to do this, but at that point things are already settled with her, and she wasn’t sure she wanted me back. About a week later she got into a relationship with someone new. While that made me so frustrated she was out of town for a funeral when that happened. And she got back I saw her. We hung out and she explained all the red flags in the girl she was dating (I’m a guy she’s bi), and asked me for advice. I’m pretty bias, and while the other girl she’s dating has a shit on red flags i told her she should not good for her regardless if she wanted me back or not. At this point in time it’s clear to me she loves me still, we have done things that may not be considered cheating but at the very least emotional cheating. Small cuddling sessions, lengthy intimate hugs, kissing on the cheek. Grabbing her ass, or her touching my crotch thru my pants playfully. It was finally this week where it seemed like she came to the gut conclusion that there was a decent possibility she wanted to get back with me. We had been spending more time with each other than she had ever spent with her girlfriend. I’ve been depressed utterly just hopless, because I’m in love with her and she expresses the same but she’s stubborn about leaving her relationship because despite the red flags the other girl hasn’t done anything wrong. At this point I decided then when she left town tonight for the next 4 days I don’t want to speak with her. I think she would get a taste of how it feels to be without me. I feel like until she actually wants to be with me I should stop interacting with her. Should I stop talking to my ex?

Thanks