Long story short there's this women I'm interested in but I feel like my opportunity to be more then friends has faded. I think she sees me as more of a best friend then anything. Which is fine because I can tell that she needs someone to talk to and I'm happy to listen to her vent, joke with her and genuinely care about her well being. It's just that sometimes I'll just look at her or I'll see her smile and think "damn she looks good". But I feel guilty for thinking like that because all the stuff we've talked about and the stuff she's told me in confidence. I feel It would be some sort of betrayel if I tried something now, like I'd been playing some sort of long game. I also can't tell if she's into me. Like she does shit and says shit that I would interpret as interest but I've never been very good at telling friendliness from flirtyness. Idk