That was….interesting

So I paid my first visit today. Been trying to find easier, less stressful ways of getting my sexual needs met (long, sad and complicated story) and thought perhaps an place to sort my self out to a bit of porn and maybe see the odd couple at play would be worth a try.

First off, venue is nice. I will give it that. But from there, it mostly slipped in rating. Initially it was just me and the stereo type dirty old man crowd. All very pervy and sleazy and….well, just the stereo type I guess. I was pretty confronted by their public wanking, but that is my issue, not theirs, and full respect for them.

A slightly younger crowd did show at about 4pm. No ladies. It did enhance the vibe, and a guy I sat beside (was not enough room to be totally private as I had hoped) was pretty cool. I got on with it, but was not really into the type of porn. Eventually my neighbour let me do the reach around, something I have always been interested to try at least once in my life. I didn’t enjoy it at all, but again, my fault, not his. His kit was pretty impressive - first I have ever touched aside from my own. I do feel really happy to have tried it (life is short), but also totally affirmed in my tendencies. I could play with a lady all day, but seems it only goes that way for me. Not news but glad I have it a shot if you will excuse the pun!

Anyway, I left at that point as I was not in the mood at all. Really not sure that I enjoyed any of it, although I think I would if there was couples and play going on and maybe better porn.

Now all that said, I will note that I have just left, and got there at about 3.30pm. Hardly prime time, and with this in mind, I am going to give it one more try later one evening at the good end of the week, but my sense is this ain’t for me :-(.

TL:DR kind of met the stereo type; got a bit better; I touched my first man meat and didn’t really like it; I left with no release; I may give it one more shot at night.