Moderators
Subreddit Rules
Full ASL details in title
The title of your post must include:
- Your age
- Gender tag: [X4Y]. X = your gender, Y = gender of person you are looking to meet
- Geographic location
Accepted genders for the gender tag (upper or lower case both valid):
- F (female)
- M (male)
- T (trans or non-binary)
- A (anyone)
Example: 24 [F4M] NYC
A short description is allowed and encouraged.
Title format
The title of your post must start with:
| ## [X4Y] Location|
|-|
With
- ## = your age (two digits)
- [X4Y] = gender tag in square brackets: X = your gender, Y = gender of person you are looking to meet
-
Location = location you are looking to meet (state + city/metro area, or online)
Accepted genders:
- F (female)
- M (male)
- T (trans or non-binary)
- A (anyone)
A short description is allowed and encouraged. Posts without location info in the title will be removed.
Post must mention or allude to ANR/ABF
Visitors of this subreddit are seeking out a partner in a specific niche. It is not a general R4R subreddit, of which there are plenty already. Your post must therefore make it unequivocally clear that you are looking for an ANR or ABF experience.
ANR/ABF does not exclude other niches but is not implied by them either. Mentioning them is allowed, but posts that do not mention or allude to ANR/ABF at all will be removed.
Be specific
Be specific about what you are looking for, set clear expectations.
Examples: Dry nursing? Inducing? Strictly ANR? Local to you? Something long term? A one-time experience?
Also, this page is not primarily a creative writing outlet. Of course there is nothing wrong with some creativity and artistry to dress up your post and set the tone, but it must not come to the exclusion of telling about yourself or what you are looking for.
No solicitation
No offers or requests for transactional exchanges are allowed via this page of any kind, financial or otherwise.
This includes, but is not limited to:
- Direct or indirect cash (rent reduction, discounts, etc.)
- Airfare, travel compensation, hotels ...
- Gifts or discounts
- Meals
- Paid trips or vacations
- In-kind favours
- Business or networking opportunities
Do not use the term 'wet nurse' (noun) as this refers to someone offering an ANR or ABF as a paid service.
No photos or videos in post
No photos, videos, or or links to such in post or comments. This includes links to image hosting sites. Photos or videos may be exchanged in private chat conversations.
Keep it productive
Keep comments productive and respect OP's wishes.
It isn’t helpful to comment that you wish you "lived closer” or to message OPs who are located too far away from you who say they're not looking for a penpal.
In particular: males, do not respond to F4F posts. If reported, male users who ignore this rule will be banned.
Be mature
No overly thirsty or sexual language. This is not a porn subreddit.
Keep things mature and classy
This is not a porn subreddit.
The vast majority of visitors of this page are normal people with private lives and sensibilities, many of whom may just be testing the waters and exploring this niche out of curiosity.
Maintain a minimal and appropriate standard of class and dignity in your post. No overly thirsty, explicit, vulgar or grotesquely sexualized language.
No reposts
Do not post variants or copies of an original post you've already made to this sub. If you do, please delete your old post first; one post per person at all times.
No spam
No adverts for other subreddits, kik groups, fetlife links, etc.
No porn or links to such.
We may remove posts where we suspect catfishing or otherwise inauthentic behaviour. Red flags for us include:
- Mass copying + pasting a generic post to many R4R subreddits;
- Spamming non-OC porn to other subreddits, especially if you're pretending or insinuating to be the subject;
- Unrealistic or 'too good to be true' profile clearly with the intent of drawing in fake engagement and attention;
- Etc.
No spam or inauthentic behaviour
No adverts for other subreddits, kik groups, fetlife links, etc.
No porn or links to such.
We may remove posts where we suspect catfishing or otherwise inauthentic behaviour. Red flags include:
- Mass copying + pasting a generic post to many R4R subreddits;
- Spamming non-OC porn to other subreddits, especially if you're pretending or insinuating to be the subject;
- Obviously unrealistic, pandering and/or 'too good to be true' profile clearly aimed at drawing in fake engagement
No promotion
Content creators or service providers are welcome here as anyone else, but this page may not be used for expanding your customer, subscriber, or fan base. Promotion of any content or services, paid or unpaid, is strictly prohibited here. If reported, doing so will, even if by approaching our OPs off-site, result in a permanent ban.
By being active on this page, it is taken as understood that you are genuinely seeking an ANR/ABF experience, for its own sake, with someone in real life.
No "Title says it all" posts
The contents of your post must include some meaningful information beyond the title. Tell us about yourself!
Include information beyond the title
Posts must meaningfully inform beyond the title in some way — tell us about yourself! This may not simply be a repeat of the title or 'Title says it all' or something similar.
Regarding success stories
Success stories that are written in the spirit of encouraging other users of this page in their search are allowed and encouraged. It should not be a detailed or erotic description of the physical intimacy that occurred; it must comply with Rules 5 and 7.
