Here's a very informative post because I'm very serious about finding a proper partner. I've clearly marked and categorized everything, so feel free to skim the parts that Interest you the most.

What brings me here: It's been a sisyphean struggle with online dating. Dating apps being torturous and waste of time less than productive, I'm hoping this might give me a breakthrough

Age: 35 (birthday was couple weeks ago)

Appearance: 5'8", medium length black hair, brown eyes and skin, slim-fit body type

Location: Currently in north NJ, near NYC

Looking for: Open to short term, ideally long term. A partner and breast friend in one. Polarity and honesty.

Traits I'm looking for: kindness, loving, trustworthy, compassionate. Good sense of humor, emotionally intelligent, communicates well, thrives on the happiness of others. I wouldn't ask for anything I couldn't mutually give

SFW Stuff: Ambivert, into nutrition, dancing, cooking, enjoys staying in shape, clean, knowledgeable

Non-sexual interests: Audiobooks, podcasts, NYT Games, boardgames, videogames, music, art, tv, movies (sci-fi, fantasy, animation, action, comedy, drama, thriller).

Been on a psychology (behavioral, evolutionary, social, epidemiological) kick and love to have intelligent/insightful and nuanced discussions

NSFW stuff:

Selfless when it comes to pleasure I do well with partners who enjoy pleasing and love being pleased Absolutely enjoys breastplay (dry or lactating) BIG on consent and communication I don't mind if you're younger or older! That includes 40's :) Preference wise: I have bigger attractions to Caucasian, European, Asian, Hispanic, Latina...

There is an aspect of nurturing a woman’s breasts that I find very comforting. I'm interested in the bonding and intimacy of spending time with a friend or partner at her breast. I can suckle for extended time. In search for a partner who's interested in ANR. Whether casual or something long-term, dry suckling or lactation, I'm open to all possibilities.

I've learned, communication and trust are paramount in any relationship especially in ANR. I'd love to build a meaningful connection with someone and share experiences with one another.

I am open to ABF, while being otherwise platonic and if the feeling is mutual, open to sensual and sexual experiences as well. I'm interested in suckling, cuddling and more of a relaxed vibe.