The Basics- You must be single. 100% single. Not poly. Not seperated. Not living with an ex. Emotionally available. Also looking for and ready to work toward a monogamous, committed, long term ANR. You: no kids or older ones only. 30-45 years old. Stable and responsible. Heavyset! I like fluffy men. Nope, I can't make exceptions on that. I do like bi curious men and the only exception to my desires for monogamy would possibly be a closed triad with 2 men, which is still monogamous I guess but with two people...?

Me: Single. I don't date around, I enjoy monogamy and commitment and my last relationship ended about a year ago. I have one teenager left at home and I have dogs. Pitbulls. I am often called "beautiful" and I do put effort into my looks and my body. I am a size 16 currently, hourglass figure. Working on improving it. Love yoga. I'm artsy, creative, a great cook, passionate about helping others and animals. I do have dreadlocks. I am a white female. That surprises people, they are the neat and clean well taken care of type. Thin and long. They smell great! I'm open to relocating in the future if needed. I love traveling and adventures! I'm stable and grounded in my own life, I feel I have a lot to offer and share with the right partner. I'm very feminine, love all things cute and pink and glittery. This weekend I'll be decorating for Christmas!

Extra notes- ANR is absolutely definitely without a doubt very much sexual in nature to me. I'm not open to or looking for any casual encounters, nor do I just want some dude to play with my boobs. That grosses me out. This is something I will only share with someone I can see doing forever with. I have waited and looked for years to find the right partner. I do not want a partner who has had many other ANR partners.

Do not message me and ask, "so how did you get into ANR?" Every low effort smooth brained guy asks that. I expect a man to be interested in getting to know me as a person before asking intense sexual questions. Getting to know each other means exactly that. If you think we could possibly be a good match, say hi! Be ready to exchange pics, phone numbers if we hit it off. I'm an adult, I don't use Snap and all the apps. Normally I'm sweet and fun, can you tell I've had not so great luck in my partner search? Please only contact me if you are in the United States and you fit exactly what I'm looking for. Thanks!