I’m so tired of this constant charade of searching for a relationship on Reddit, as it seems that most individuals don’t want something long term. I guess it’s to be expected when our communication is initially started over the internet. First off, I’m not interested in starting a relationship with anyone who doesn’t want a long term connection. This means I want a solid foundation of friendship, and I want to actually enjoy each-other’s company. Due to this seemingly impossible ask, I try not to have many preferences in what I’m looking for.

At minimum I’m looking for a dominate woman, and having a motherly vibe would be vastly appreciated! If you are a guy reading this, sorry but you won’t be the magical one to change my mind. I always write this in my posts and I still get spammed with dick pics. Beyond that, I don’t have any other hardline requirements. I like to consider myself an open person, so if you’re trans or non-binary that’s quite alright too! As I am mainly centered around falling for your personality, things like height and weight don’t matter at all! However, being younger than 40 would be greatly preferred. This isn’t a hardline rule, but I’ve found that In my previous experiences having a massive age gap usually doesn’t give us much to talk about or relate to.

I currently live in Cary, North Carolina. Though I’m perfectly fine with having an long distance relationship! I am 19, I’m very skinny, I’m 5’4, and I’m only like 120 pounds because I barley eat. I can send pics if asked, but only to people I get to know. If you come into my dms immediately asking for pics or nudes I’m ignoring you. I am very introverted but I like to consider myself to be a very empathetic person. My emotions are really tied into the people around me. The thing that makes me happy is living through others happiness, so I always try to be the nicest possible to everyone around me. I like to consider myself to be a very emotionally intelligent person, and I’m hopeful we can talk through any relationship or personal issues we may have. Things like compromise and understanding is integral to any relationship. I minored in psychology for a tad and it’s something that really interests me so I have some experience, but I don’t want another relationship where I’m the persons go to therapist for everything. (Id love if you would include a star emoji in your intro message so I know you read through my post). I am currently seeking a bachelors degree for Game art. I plan to be a concept artist for video games, maybe movies and tv I haven’t fully decided yet.

I’m very happy you took the time to read my very long message! I wish you luck in your endeavors to find someone perfect for you even if it isn’t me! I understand that I’m most likely not all that much of a perfect person for the average person physically speaking, I’m just hopeful you can enjoy my personality and even just hanging out as friends. Even if we can’t date or whatever I’d love to just be friends all the same. Thank you so much for your time! Please privately dm if interested!