Feels like my stomach dropped when I read this message from a party host who told me I did something wrong... But won't tell me what it is. And now I am racking my brain going over everything trying to figure out what it could have been...ahhh!!!

I don't even want to go back, like ever, so why do I even care???? I feel unsafe with someone being angry at me, that is the situation. I want to defend myself even though it literally doesn't matter, I don't need to get into a fight on this. I asked for feedback so I can improve and thats all I can do. Right????

RIGHT????

AHHH!

Update: I checked my message and spoke to a friend and have concluded that these people are nuts. They didn't give me ANY specific feedback so I feel like that's on them. I can't adjust behavior if I am not told what the offending behavior is. I defended myself to this person politely and made a recommendation they handle similar situations differently in the future. Then I blocked them, for peace of mind.