He called me on my birthday with his new wife on the phone basically asserting how happy he is and then the wife did too and they didnt listen to me or what i am actually going through. Then they minimized my brother who also has issues. And then i just had to get off the phone because i wasnt into feeling invalidated.

And his new wifes daughter is getting married and i feel such pressure to drive hours to go but i absolutely feel no connection to any of it. Its his new family situation i didnt really ask for any of this. Ive only met the bride twice.

I feel so jumbled up inside. Im so angry that i didnt just ignore him. He has to constantly need attention. And hes going to ramp up this forced persona of how perfect his life is and mock normal peoples lives who are just trying to fucking exist.

And i just know hes eventually going to ramp too high start drinking and will then go through the attention victim seeking again. Fuck him. I am so tired of this 😢😢😢