Good afternoon!

A creep and a scam and a scumbag was caught in the midst of working us over, and I am writing to show this to all of you because it's important for you to see this and to better understand why we have the rules that we do. Obviously, it's tedious to have to comment on a post, ask for permission to DM, and then wait for approval from that person before sending them a chat. After all, we're looking to be best boob buds right? Unfortunately, that rule is going to stay in place forever, because of people like this person.

This was posted a day ago. The person states they are a male in Tunisia moving to Canada in a year right?

https://www.reddit.com/r/AdultBreastfeeding/comments/1i44h3k/how_to_not_lose_a_potential_partner_advice_needed/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Imagine my surprise when I got a chat this morning showing me this SAME PERSON in a screenshot chatting up a person from this sub stating that they are 24 years old, a female, inducing, and asking all kinds of questions about their inducing journey that could have been asked in the sub? They even showed off their squirting milky boobs (by way of copying a milky girl from somewhere else on reddit of course) to convince them that they were truly a girl who took this person's advice!

And imagine my surprise when I looked them up on the fancy pants mysterious Internet website that creepily retains reddit comments forever and ever even after you delete them and saw that they have actually had quite the resume: they are a college girl at 24, a college girl at 26, they are a "gentelman" who has lived in Canada already, and more: https://search.pullpush.io/?kind=submission&author=Grey-99&size=100 Go read the comments yourselves, folks.

And here's the thing. Sure, couples share reddit accounts all the time. We see it in the boob subs I moderate where they take pictures of each other and comment together lewdly. That's one thing. But there's a couple of things that make me feel that this is not the case here: one, most couples mention that they share the account somewhere, and there's no mention of this being the case; and two, how odd would it be to share an account and see where you're saying that you're not sure of themselves in their relationship knowing the other would see it? Would you not just communicate it with each other knowing the other would see it when they go on the account next? It just doesn't add up and, with the proof I got this morning, I am so thoroughly creeped out anyways that that's neither here nor there.

So, I am writing to reiterate this to all of you who share this space because this is extremely important:

If you want to communicate with anyone by DM or private message, you must first comment on the post asking for permission to do so, and you must wait until they write back providing you permission to do so before you send a DM or chat request.

For those of you who have posted a comment to the Bosom Buddies Introduction Megathread and have advised that you are open to chats from specific folks: be vigilant, because this would not apply to you if you gave this permission.

If you receive a chat request from someone who is not inducing, or from someone who says they are but that didn't get your permission to chat you first, take a screenshot and send it to me, or to u/myownlittleta or u/fuckyouinyourface and let us know. It does not matter if they say they are new to reddit, or whatever the reason: they have to be made aware of the rules and we cannot keep this space safe without your help.

Enjoy the rest of your weekends folks! Be careful out there!