I was in, what I thought, was a monogamous relationship, (which to me is important. We did discuss a possible ONE TIME threesome). About 6 months after my BA, I lactated for him because he was into that. We BOTH really enjoyed that! I was turned onto something new, and it really filled out my breasts. Long story short, I found on one of those “groups” he has been chatting on dating websites and had a date set up. We had an agreement that if he was ever done with things (or if I was ever done with things) to tell each other. And I would be unhappy, but I would deal, as long as he told me.

I was with him Saturday, and as it turns out the post I saw was from two days prior to that. I feel completely betrayed. I'm lactating, I don't have a “ton,” especially compared to when I was nursing my kids.

But what do I do now? I like it, but thinking about it makes me think of him, and it makes me inconsolable, and VERY sad.

Has this happened to anyone else?? ( I definitely DO NOT want to find another partner )