Well, let's present my situation quickly.

I'm a 28 yo guy, living on my own, but i still have my adoptive parents, my mother couldn't have children, so they made an adoption while i was 4 months old. I always knew i was adopted, they told me the second i was able to understand words, i never missed anything (love, money, friends, etc), my family is my family, even if it's not from blood.

My mother told me a letter from my biological mother was waiting for me at the town hall of my birth city, with the reason why my biological mother had to give me, her reasons, but i'm still wondering IF i should go claim it or not.

I'm bothered by the fact that i don't know where i come from, my origins, if i have brothers/sisters, or if my biological parents are still alive, BUT i'm scared i will be disappointed, to see where i come from, and in a way would shake my "world" and make me questioned who i am, or i don't know, i'm just scared about the consequences, if it will have some tho.

Have anybody of you had this "fear", and what did you do ? did you do it ? how did you managed the outcome (good or bad) ?