Hey everyone. I'm seeking advice. I'm currently in my car having a mental crisis of overthinking and I need to seek help with this. I'm talking to this woman, mother of two, has a lot of mental health issues *ADHD,Autism ,Generalised Anxiety ,Severe Depression ,CPTSD ,BPD * we've been talking here and there for awhile and we've met in person a handful of times. Ill be completely honest I've given her my best to the letter, if she needed help financially I was there, if she was hungry I sent food, I paid for her hair appointments and even gave her money for her daycare. When we are together Its awesome as my silly matches her silly and we both click. I've paid for an Air BnB weekend away for us as an escape from reality due to me being overworked and her being done with the daily grind. I've been researching on her mental health issues as I don't want to take what could feel like a personal attack to be what is normal for her and she does this without noticing. Lately, she never talks to me and it's 6 of my messages vs 1 of her messages with hours in between them. She's a gamer so she's not by her phone alot and she has been having a hard time. Should I stop talking to her? Should I find someone that isn't so distant and cold over a phone that leaves the impression of being uninterested and kinda cold? Whenever I get her attention I ask if she's eaten and if she's had water but feel like I've fallen to fast while she's not so much using me but keeps be hanging.

Guys I really don't want to leave this beautiful woman but I can't allow myself to be hurt over someone that may not be on the same page as I am. The fact she has kids doesn't scare me, the fact she has baggage and "disorders" isn't a worry for me however I just want to kinda walk with her and not run in front.