Do you ever just stop and think about how you ended up at this place in life? I'm grateful that I have home as my happy place, filled with lots of warmth, familial love, but it is also completely devoid of any intimacy, passion. On paper, I've got all the makings of the perfect life with a stereotypical suburban lifestyle and a successful career.

Like so many of us, the deeper you dig into that bucolic existence, the more it unravels. DBs are slow torture and I've spent years trying & hoping for it to improve to no avail.

A good lover can make you learn things about yourself that you never knew before, and I consider myself a lifelong student who pays close attention in class. I'm confident in myself and my body, and I know what I like. I'm ready to find someone to share that with who also has the understanding that while this is amazingly fun, reality reigns, family takes priority, and there won't be any riding off into the sunset together.

Essentially, I am looking for someone who has all they need but who wants that little bit extra. For me, it's all about the connection and chemistry. Being able to build a foundation of trust and friendship upon which to layer an amazing sexual connection is key. Intimacy and trust go hand in hand, and I'm not looking for a flash in the pan, a car quickie, or a ons. If I'm doing this, I'm doing it right. I want to do it with someone deserving of the risks involved and who appreciates me, but even more importantly, communicates well and respects me. I know my worth, and you should know yours as well.

And for the typical parameters, intelligent, kind, and respectful. You have it together personally and professionally, but want that extra piece to give you butterflies (and orgasms). I'm busy and recognize that you are too, but I always make time for what and who matters to me. If you want to, you will, and I hope to find someone who fits into that role. build doesn't matter to me.

If this post hits home and you're looking to do this thing in a way that reflects who we are and where we're at in life, send me a message and let's chat.