Hey Reddit!

I’m a 40-year-old, bottom-leaning versatile gay guy looking to connect with someone younger for a meaningful FWB arrangement or potentially something long-term.

What I’m Into: • Age range: 18-30 • Build: Slim to average preferred • Ideally more of a top • Bonus points for short facial hair and being cut

What I’m NOT Into: • Clubbing or partying – not my vibe. I’m more of an introvert who enjoys comfort, good company, and chill nights in. • Hard no on recreational drug use or poor hygiene. • Smoking isn’t ideal, but it’s not a complete deal-breaker. • Absolutely not interested in anyone controlling or invasive. If you’re the type to bug phones, hide trackers, spy with cameras, read emails, or try to cut someone off from friends and family, I’m not your guy. Already dealt with one psycho ex who did that—and yes, he got caught.

What I Value: • Honest, trustworthy, and reliable people who are financially stable and have career goals. • Someone who enjoys the finer things in life: great friends, spontaneous outings, hobbies, and travel. • A genuine connection with someone who knows what they want in life.

If you’re a down-to-earth, goal-oriented guy who’s into making real connections, let’s chat and see where it leads!

Cheers!