This is in no way meant to bash the attachment style craze I have seemed to find myself in. Now that that’s out of the way…..

I went out for New Years with 12 friends, all are lesbians/bisexual/a few gay guys, we’re all around the same age bracket (35-45) and they were all talking about their attachment styles and how it effects their love lives. Naturally I asked them what they are talking about, I’ve seen people all over Reddit talking about it, and they decided I needed to take the test. Ok, no big deal, it’s an internet test that has no bearing on my life. Afterwards I got looked at like I had 2 heads when it came back “Secure”. They decided to go to a different site, I do it again, same results.

Are people really into this thing as much as they seemed to be the other night? Or are my friends crazy? They all thought I should update my dating profile based on it. Apparently it’s a “huge green flag”. Is it really that important?