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Two updates:

1) A & C are going to keep seeing each other. The more I learn about the situation (and the more I reflect on A's red flags from our dates), the more I think that this is a bad choice. But it's not up to me, so whatever.

2) On my first date with A, we went to a Halloween event. There were a bunch of great costumes, and my roommate had asked to see pics, so I sent my roommate some pics while we were on the date together. A was also sending some pics to friends.

I learned the other day, while grocery shopping with B, that A was sending C pictures WHILE WE WERE TOGETHER ON OUR DATE of OUR DATE. And A was actively telling C that she was at this event "with a friend." (And again, C is polyam, so literally, why?!)

Icky.