Most of this is taken directly from a text I sent a new friend in the community. Part review, part me having to process everything, part bragging!

A little background - wifey and I are in our 40's and are brand new in the lifestyle. Neither of us have done anything like any of this before. But last weekend we went to a strip club and she was able to play with a few of the girls with me watching. She loved it so much we decided to explore it a little more.

The story - We went to The Sweet Spot (formerly known as The Hive) on Friday for our first time and had so much fun! We played in a "private" room with the door open and had people watching us and then we played in the "group" room with us and another couple watching each other. It was so hot!

So, we went again last night lol. The crowd was so much bigger. Fri was probably 30-40 people, and probably 100 last night. It was a theme night so they asked people to wear white and then they had glow paint and markers to mark each other up. Wifey and I painted on each other a bit then grabbed a drink and just walked around and people watched a bit.

We eventually decided to play in a private room with the door open and had one couple stand at the door and watch. She was rubbing him through his pants and he had lifted up her skirt and playing with her. It was so hot knowing that they were playing with each other while watching us! We finished up and played in another private room later but ended up having to close the door because one guy walked away from his partner to focus in on us and he was just a little too intrusive. Totally killed the vibe. We finished up in the group room again, but it was definitely a new experience for us! There had to have been at least 7 or 8 couples in there and it was really interesting (and educational!) to see how everyone was playing together. There were 3 couples next to each other with 2 of the girls on their backs touching and playing with each other with their partners standing up between their legs. The other couple had a girl on her hands and knees playing with one of the other girls with her partner doing her from behind. Two other couples on the other side of us were in full swap mode with them going back and forth between their partners, but at one point one of the girls was going down on the other - the one going down had her partner inside her from behind and the one receiving had her partner in her mouth. I loved watching all of these because (other than the full swap parts) all of the group play was stuff we'd be up for doing. Wifey and I don't want to swap, we just want her to play with other girls and maybe FFM OR MFFM, but with the guys not allowed to touch anyone except their own partners. What we saw was just that - the girls were playing with each other, the guys playing with their own girls, but everyone involved. Like I said very educational lol. As far as it being hot... The group room was actually a little much, for me at least, and I'm pretty sure wifey agrees. For the group room, in terms of it being a hot, sexy experience, the first night was better. It was a more intimate experience where we were watching that couple and they were watching us and the level of interaction was amazing. Stealing occasional glances, and other times blatantly just watching each other. We knew who we were playing for and got to hear each of their moans and see their faces in pleasure. Last night, it was just a sea of flesh and we weren't really part of any of the groups.

The hottest part last night was actually the end of the night... As we were waiting for our Uber we struck up a chat with a couple waiting for theirs and... Wifey got her cherry popped (kinda lol)! She made out with a girl for the first time! She was so turned on (as was I!)! She started playing with the girl's boobs while they were kissing and they were both really getting into it. The other couple's Uber showed up in a minute or two so they didn't go at it for too long, but it was much more than a little kiss. So freaking hot!

So yeah, new experiences all the way around. Some not that great, but a lot were amazing! We came back home both nights and played a little more and woke up both mornings and had awesome sex!

The weekend really helped us discover what we want out of our experience in the LS and I'm sure we'll be going back, at least occasionally!