About us

• We’ve been married 17 years.
• Husband desires no male to male sexual contact , wife is bi.
• Condoms for intercourse and bj
• No cum on or in wife except from husband
• No anal play for wife . Husband is open to anal play with female partners if they are into it. It isn’t his strong desire / kink but knows many females really enjoy it.
• Otherwise it’s whatever the partners consent to goes :)
• We like cool chill relaxed happy people and consider ourselves to be such. We like sex. We like to combine those two likes however it suits everyone and makes them all happy :)
• We are both very sapiosexual. Sure we can have pretty good sex with people we just met. However when we have that brain connection and get to know folks , it’s really incredible mind blowing sex .
• We are both primarily dominant but also can have a great time with vanilla sex :)
• Husband is really picky / selective with females. Wife is more open. Please do not be at all offended if just the wife plays and husband watches.
• We aren’t in the best shape. We aren’t horrible. If your primary attraction preference is athletic / fit / very HWP , we totally respect that . However this way we won’t waste each others time.
• We are fully DDF. We despise the smell of 420. Let that mean what it will to you .
• We are mid career professionals , we live a comfortable life , we have a well appointed home with lots of lovely amenities. As such we have a strong preference to host all play. Open to travel for the right couple or solo female .
• We’ve had many 3somes and more somes and understand the complex logistics needed to make them work for everyone
• We have extensive experience in the lifestyle (solo female / male play, trains , gang bangs , other group play ).

What are we seeking?

• Couples (any experience level , newbies welcome ). Wide open on age , race, experience level , fantasies , kinks , gender makeup (mf/ff) etc . We are somewhat wary of complex poly cube situations , we’ve had those blow up before and don’t wish to be in that blast radius :) .

• Solo females. Open to solo playing / single females . The wife has a preference for larger bust / submissive leaning for her enjoyment or our joint use. Husband has a preference for petite small breasted. Wife is open to play solo with females or we can both play as everyone is comfortable. Open to a wide variety of females . Race , body type , experience level etc. We are open to just about everything. Mostly interested in intelligence, maturity , personality. Reach out and say hello :) we don’t bite too hard :D

• Solo males….. very very very selective. We’ve already blocked dozens . Paragraphs , proper introduction , being respectful and not sending dick pictures is the bare minimum . We have a strong preference for gentlemen who need to be thoroughly used / abused / dominated for a full evening experience (treat us to a very nice date , prepare her for use , cleanup the mess ) . If you just want low effort free sex, don’t bother. We want to Cuck and dominate males on our date night . It’s one of many kinks and fetishes we enjoy .

• All (MF / FF couples / solo males and females ) If you are interested in solo dating my wife , send an application via chat or DM . It’s a high bar to clear , she is well worth the effort to pursue :)

Application process

Reach out in chat :) send a few paragraphs about yourself and what you are looking for . Pics strongly preferred (safe for work ) . One will be sent upon return.

Please introduce yourself properly , we find that helps normalize the conversation. Ask whatever you like , we know it can be awkward to start these conversations off :)

We enjoy both vanilla and submissive leaning individuals :) We have no desire to be submissive to anyone else .