We've all seen the standard M4F anr posts across Reddit so I'm going to try a bit of a nuanced post to find my anr partner:

Have any of you read "The Wild One" by Daisy Jane? After all what kink positive woman doesn't like her spicy romance novels right. Anyway, while I'll admit I'm not some secret millionaire mechanic I think the dynamic between Beau and Beck are exactly the ltr dynamic I want in my life. Myself, the 25yo caring and considerate man, looking to share the connection and relief that anr brings combined with the carnal and sensual pleasures that come with it. Being able to enhance each other's lives and be who they look forward to seeing each day with abated breath. Using actual communication and respect for the other person to solve any relationship turmoil because that's what adults are supposed to do! I want to find that person I can be as obsessed with as I already am with the thought of ANR.

ACOTARs got nothing on this one.