I have a new December build pairing a 14600k and a 7800xt

Build: https://pcpartpicker.com/list/jZrJyg

Everything was fine for quite a while then randomly it crashed and windows wouldn't load I thought it was a mothboard issue. but now I realize it's not. its my graphics card that crashes and it seems like the drivers dissappear. it's fine playing the games I was playing in December, but now I'm playing car mechanic simulator 2021 that's modded and now it's crashing over and over. now when it crashes it will do one of two things: 1.)it will either stop at the gigabyte screen and stay there 2.) it will say windows failed to load making me reset windows and re-download it from the cloud. However if I plug my monitor into the motherboard display port it will boot right up like nothing happened with no signs of a graphics card driver it does recognize the 7800xt is there and I can enable it in device manager. even amd drivers detect it's there but it says that it can't download the drivers because there's a problem and no games will launch they all don't respond I have to then plug it back into the graphics card and reinstall windows to get it to boot up and be able to install the amd drivers again and it will run the game just fine for some time before repeating the same problem am I SOL? Do I need to abandon the 7800xt? I know people say amd has this driver issue but I can only install one driver I don't see an older driver to download I don't know what's causing it to crash also when it crashes it starts with the monitor losing it's connection to the graphics card but I can hear the game could it be the monitor or the display cable? Or is this a windows problem? I have disabled windows auto updates in the windows settings I don't know if there's a separate setting for disabling other updates to components.