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My wife, Bianca and I are swingers. Yes, we share each other with other couples. It is the best thing that has ever happened to our marriage. We will gladly answer all of your questions. You can ask questions of me (Matt), my wife (Bianca) or both of us. Proof: We are the moderators of /r/swingers. Our Twitter page, YouTube channel and the swinger magazine we own.
Amazingly, I don't remember either. Thanks for the question!
We actually have numerous favorite couples. Either they're super hot and/or the sex is amazing. There are also people that live in other parts of the world that we will try to play with whenever we see them.
We had a bit of jealousy early on but that went away pretty quick as we realized there was nothing to be jealous of. Now, if Bianca is with a guy who is hotter than me or better at sex, I'm excited for her. Plus he might be able to teach me a trick to improve my technique. That's a good thing.
Nope. That's an urban legend that I don't think has ever been true. The biggest rule is "you don't have to do anything you don't want to" so if a girl doesn't want to play with a guy, she doesn't have to. Key parties just wouldn't follow that rule. "You picked my key, We must have sex."
This is considered slightly unusual by many, so we thought we'd do an AMA.
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It did at first but not anymore. The successful swingers are the ones who can get past the jealousy.