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Hi there! I’m F26 and I’ve been dealing with vaginismus and hypertonic pelvic floor for my whole life. I’m on my healing journey right now, I’m having psychological and physical therapy and it’s getting better. I feel like there’s not much awareness about this topic so I made this AMA is for everyone that wants to know more about my issue and my journey with vaginismus.
Does this tightness affect your butthole? Sorry, this is an anal penetration question, I hope that's OK. I find that I can't clench my vagina without clenching my butthole.
Have you tried medication that relaxes your muscles? Like valium or maybe there is something even stronger out there? If yes, what were the results? If no, how come?
Oh, good, what a relief. At least you get to experience that!
Mdma is a relatively safe drug, but you should be careful if you have certain health conditions, like heart conditions or temperature regulation issues. It can interact with other drugs you're taking, and should never be mixed with antidepressants.
There could be weird-ish side effects, yes. The bigger the dose, the more side effects, so a very good reason to stay sensible. Jaw clenching, vasoconstriction (so cold hands, inability to get an erection for some guys), "wiggly eyes". Haven't experienced that last one. Could be difficult or impossible to achieve an orgasm.
The positive effects outweigh the negative effects for sure.
Addiction is possible but unlikely. It's can give s such relief from anxiety that you may just want to use more often than advised. I've heard of people developing addictions, but it's more psychological and not physical.
It's being researched as an aid in PTSD therapy and couples therapy. Look into MAPs studies done on the US. It will soon be legalised because of its therapeutic effects.
Regarding addiction, I personally got addicted to weed pretty much immediately. With MDMA,on occasion, I have used it more often than the advised 1x per 3months, and a few times I've used stupid high doses, but thankfully without consequences.
Still, weed is something to try. It has helped me open up sexually as well. And it does relax you, and can make you insanely horny.
Does this condition affect your orgasms?
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I'm happy to hear that you found things that are working for you!
Have you ever tried MDMA?
If not, I think MDMA is something you could try, it's more than a party drug - it can be a very therapeutic experience both solo and with a partner or a friend. It's pure self love and self acceptance. I have my own hangups and anxieties about sex, and MDMA experiences have made me feel so much more comfortable in my body, I'm much more sexually confident. And the physical sensations that I feel in my vagina have permanently changed, I discovered that I was more sensitive than I previously thought. I thought I was a bit numb down there but I think I was just disconnected from my body.
I really can't shut up about this substance 😂 it's life changing! Feel free to DM or reply here if you have any questions about this.